A Call To
Holiness
A Series through
1 Corinthians
Part 16a – You
are not yours (
***Commentaries
by David Prior, Leon Morris and Simon Kistemaker have contributed greatly to
this outline***
I. Introduction
It
has been a few weeks since we were last in 1 Corinthians. While I was only away from church for one
Sunday, I was out of the pulpit for two Sundays. So, it has been three Sunday’s since we last
shared 1 Corinthians together. As
refreshing as it is to be away and have some time off, I love being on this
side of the pulpit more! It’s good to be
back!
Let’s
remind ourselves of context before we get in to today’s text. In Chapters 1-4 Paul addressed the issue of
division. The specific thing that the
Corinthians were divided over was men. They favored one teacher over another. Paul addressed the issue of divisions as a whole and encouraged all the
brothers to get a long. We learn from
this portion of the letter that God desires His church to be unified. There is strict judgment for the person who
destroys God’s church by causing division—God will destroy him.
In
Chapter 5 Paul turns a corner and starts addressing more specific sins that
plagued the Corinthian church. He
addresses the issue of incest—a man is sleeping with his father’s wife. This is an act that believe it or not the
Corinthians were arrogant about. They
were puffed up in some way over this brother committing this sin. Paul says that their boasting is not good and
that the sinning brother should be removed from the church. A little leaven
leavens the whole lump. Paul’s words
“you have no business judging outsiders” speak loudly to our culture
today. Our concern should be the purity
of the church, not necessarily the purity of the world. God judges the world.
In
sticking with the theme of judgment, in Chapter 6 Paul calls to attention the
astounding truth that believers are going to be used by God to judge the world
and angels, therefore, we should be able to resolve disputes amongst ourselves
without taking our litigation before secular courts. His main point is that secular people belong
to an entirely different kingdom than believers. They do not even operate their lives by the
same set of rules. They are not
competent to properly judge the disputes amongst believers.
Last
time we were in 1 Corinthians we looked at verses 12-14 of Chapter 6. There Paul reminded us that just because we
have the right to do something doesn’t mean that it is the right thing to do. We may have the freedom in Christ to partake
of meat sacrificed to idols (the issue Paul will specifically talk about in
Chapter 8) but if it prevents the Gospel from going forth then we shouldn’t do
it. The body is for the Lord and the
Lord for the body.
That
brings us to our text for this week. But
first, I’d like to tell you a story.
NFL running
back Shaun Alexander writes:
At
the
One
time it almost did. It happened the first year of college when I'd gone home
for a visit. To protect her privacy, I'll call her Sherron. One night we were
alone in my room while my mom was gone. We were kissing, and I thought
seriously about having sex with her. But something in me kept whispering, This
isn't right.
Just
then the phone ran. It was my mother, and she asked, "Is everything good,
Shaun?"
"Uh…yeah, Mom," I said. "It's
good."
"What's going on?" she asked.
"Oh,
nothing," I answered. "Sherron is here and we're going to go out and
eat and probably go to a movie. Something like that."
"Okay,
that's fine," Mom said. "I'm going to stay in
As
I hung up, thoughts raced through my mind. What am I doing here? Something
isn't right about this. This is so easy and nobody else will know. But
I'll know, and God will know. It was more than wrestling with my
thoughts. I was in a full-out fight. I had to decide who my body would serve.
Just then, Sherron leaned close to me and whispered,
"I've brought condoms."
My
thoughts were racing. Mainly I was thinking, Am I one of those rotten guys
who says he loves Jesus but folds when it's easy or when he won't get caught?
"No, we can't do this," I finally said.
"Why not?"
"We're not supposed to."
"What does that mean?" Sherron
asked.
I jumped up and pulled her to her feet. "It means
we're going out."
I
hurried her out to the car, and we drove to the mall. That was the closest I
ever got to having sex before marriage. Mom's phone call had kept me from
making a big mistake. Many times I've been grateful to my mother for calling
exactly when she did.
Shaun Alexander, in his book Touchdown Alexander
(Harvest House, 2007); quoted in the September 2-3 entries of Men of Integrity (September/October 2008)
1 Corinthians 6:15-20 Do you not know that your bodies are members
of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a
prostitute? Never! (16) Or do you
not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For,
as it is written, "The two will become one flesh." (17) But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one
spirit with him. (18) Flee from sexual
immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the
sexually immoral person sins against his own body. (19) Or do you not know that your body is a temple
of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your
own, (20) for you were bought with a price. So glorify
God in your body.
II. Do
you not know…your body belongs to Christ (6:15)
Paul is going to
use three very familiar statements from this letter in this short five verse
passage. “Do you not know” is a phrase
that we’ve seen before (3:16; 5:6; 6:2, 3, 9). This seems like a natural place to break up this section of Scripture
for the purpose of teaching, so that’s the structure we’ll use this morning.
1 Corinthians 6:15 Do you not know that your bodies are members
of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a
prostitute? Never!
As a reminder, the phrase
“do you not know” gives us indication that Paul taught them these particular
truths while he was present with them. His oral teaching should have stuck with them. He asks these rhetorical questions expecting,
even knowing, that the answer is “yes!”
Let’s not forget that this
is not just true of the Corinthians, it is true of us as well. All believers for all of time (past, present
and future) are members of Christ. We
belong to Him. Your actual, physical
body belongs to Christ. The flesh,
bones, tendons, muscles, organs, vessels, cartilage, appendages and senses are
all His.
You might be thinking that
sounds like one weird body. If every
Christian for all of time is a member of Christ what must that look like? Sounds impossible, doesn’t it? That’s because our finite minds cannot begin
to comprehend an infinite God. These
statements are all throughout Scripture; statements where the attributes of man
are applied to God. Have you ever heard
of phrases like “The eyes of God are on the righteous?” or, “God holds the waters
of the Earth in the palm of His hand?” These are called anthropomorphic statements. Say what pastor? Anthropomorphic. It means ascribing the attributes of humans
to things that are not human, especially a deity. God has chosen to do this many, many times in
Scripture because that is the only way we could even begin to understand
anything about Him!
When Isaiah was given a
glimpse of heaven and he saw God seated on the throne (Is. 6) he saw that not
because God is actually seated on a throne—a throne couldn’t contain God—but
because that is the way that God chose to reveal Himself to Isaiah so that
Isaiah would have some sort of understanding about what he had just seen.
God doesn’t actually sit on
a throne; Jesus isn’t actually sitting at his right hand. These are all images that are intended to
help us understand the relationship of God to the world (King) and Jesus to God
(equally in command). Even then we cannot fully understand it but
this does help us to get a better grasp on it.
When we stop and remember
that God is spirit it is not hard to imagine that we can all be members of
Him. Paul expected the Corinthians to
understand this phenomenon and I suspect he would expect you to understand it,
too.
He then follows it up with
another question. “Shall I then take the
members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute?” He was setting them up with the question that
he knew they would know the answer too. I imagine that he expected them to know the answer to this question as
well, but he doesn’t leave it open for discussion. He gives an emphatic answer, “Never!”
I get the sense that Paul
has a bit of disdain in his voice with this emphatic answer. The absurdity of a positive answer to this
question would make him sick. It makes
no sense.
Now, a question or two
might arise as you read this. The big
one that comes to my mind is…why a prostitute? Why did he jump to that issue? Well, the answer is fairly simple.
But why?
III. Do
you not know…your body belongs to the person(s) you give it to sexually
(6:16-18)
1 Corinthians 6:16-18 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a
prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, "The two will
become one flesh." (17) But he
who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. (18) Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin
a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins
against his own body.
The second “do you not
know” statement in this passage is used by Paul to show us that sex is not just
some random act. It joins our body to
the body of the person with whom we have given ourselves too. This union outside the confines of marriage
is a dangerous one. However, within the
confines of marriage it is one that God blesses (we’ll be looking at that more
in the weeks to come <Ch. 7>). By
joining their bodies with prostitutes the Corinthians have become one with
them.
Let me just take a minute
and point out that Paul was addressing the union between a man and a prostitute
specifically because that was the issue that the Corinthians were struggling
with. However, the principle of sexual
purity transcends the illustration of prostitution and the gender of male. Paul could have just as easily used the
illustration of the woman down the street, the attractive co-worker, the cute
neighbor, or the UPS man. Interestingly
enough, the word translated “sexually immoral” in verse 9 is the word porneia which is where we get our word
pornography, and that certainly applies in this context, as well.
So the question needs to be
asked. Who are you joined to? Paul says that the person who is joined to
the Lord becomes one spirit with Him, but the person who is joined to a
prostitute becomes one body with her. So, who are you joined to? God? Porn? Holiness or immorality? God
honoring or God defying?
What should you do? Flee! That’s Paul’s injunction. Flee
sexual immorality! Think of the contrast
between the union of a person’s soul with God and the union of a person’s body
with a prostitute. Prostitutes are
temporary, God is eternal. Prostitutes
are full of disease, God is ripe with holiness.
If you are married and
floundering around with other people, either in real life or in the cyber
world, you must flee! You cannot enjoy
the benefits of matrimony if you are defiling the commitment that you made to God
when you said, “I do.” Pursuing sexual
pleasure outside of the marriage relationship because you are unhappy with the
sexual relationship of your marriage is like putting a band aid on a broken
arm—useless. You cannot find true
pleasure when you defy God’s plan.
When you commit the sin of sexual immorality you commit it with your body. It is the only sin that involves your
body. The desire comes from within and
the pleasure comes from within. When you
commit sexual sin you sin against your own body…oh, but that body is not really
yours, it is a member of Christ (vs. 15).
IV. Do
you not know…your body is a
1 Corinthians 6:19-20 Or do you not know that your body is a temple
of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your
own, (20) for you were bought with a price. So glorify
God in your body.
Paul’s final “do you not
know” question points us to the reason why we must flee sexual immorality. Our bodies are the dwelling place of God’s
Spirit.
Now, there is something
interesting that we need to look at. Notice, if you will, back in Chapter 3 Paul used a similar phrase:
1 Corinthians 3:16-17 Do you not know that you are God's temple and
that God's Spirit dwells in you? (17) If anyone
destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and you
are that temple.
What’s neat is that while
these two passages seem similar, they are actually different. In Chapter 3 the “you” is plural. Paul said, “Do you not know that y’all are
God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in all y’all.” (Paul was from
Notice that in Chapter 3
Paul said that God’s Spirit dwells in the corporate church; but in Chapter 6 it
is the Holy Spirit who dwells in each believer. Is there a difference? No! Paul is just using the distinction of “holy”
to indicate the severity of sexual immorality.
Then, Paul does something
really interesting. He says that we are
not our own, we were bought with a price. That doesn’t sound too interesting at first hearing, but it is always
important to keep in mind the context of the passage. Paul was talking about the sin of giving your
body to a prostitute. Prostitutes are
bought with a price. He is drawing a
parallel between what they were doing as an “act of worship” and what God did
as an act of love.
We have been bought with
something much more precious and valuable than money. We were bought with the blood of Christ. The sacrifice of God’s Son on
The temple prostitutes were
glorifying their god by offering their bodies; Paul’s command is that we
glorify the God of the universe with our bodies. Do you catch the correlations there? They are very powerful and very convicting.
Who are you glorifying with
your body?
V. Conclusion
Shaun Alexander glorified God with his
body. We need more people with that sort
of conviction and resolve! We’re here to
help, please let us pray for you.


